Don’t Be Afraid

Jn 4:1-4

 

 

 

I picked up a book recently by Jeff Walling called Until I Return.  It is about 12 different thoughts Jesus wants every believer to know.  For the next few weeks, I want address several of those thoughts.

 

Today’s thought is “Don’t Be Afraid.”  At first reading, I realize how easy that is to hear and how hard that is to put into practice.  About a month ago, our doctor told Helene he couldn’t figure out what was happening with her body and that she should probably go to Mayo.  Don’t be afraid. 

 

Two weeks ago Dorothy went into the hospital for her yearly case of pneumonia only to find out there was something more urgent happening with her body.  She was sent to Indianapolis for emergency surgery.  Don’t be afraid.

 

A father of 4 finds out his job is being phased out.  There aren’t any other jobs around.  Don’t be afraid.

 

A group of Christians are arrested in Laos for worshipping.  They are sentenced to 20 years in a Laotian prison and possible execution.  Don’t be afraid.

 

We hear what Jesus is saying.  We want to believe it and live it, but it is so hard to put into practice when it goes from theory to reality.  How do we do it?

 

PRAYER

 

I.       Set Up

A.   The Dinner table

1.                 Imagine the scene at the last meal Jesus had with his disciples before his execution.

2.                 They are sitting around talking sharing jokes and doing all the things 12 good friends do.

3.                 Two of them are somewhat quiet though.

4.                 Judas for reasons of his own that only he and Jesus know about and Jesus himself.  He knows what is really going on.

5.                 In the midst of all the banter he makes his announcement:  “I’m leaving.”

6.                 What, leaving?  Where would Jesus be going at this hour?

7.                 Well, they would all just go with him.

8.                 He tells them they can’t come with him at this time, but a time would come when they would follow after him.

9.                 For now, they would have to live without him until he returns.

B.   Until he return

1.                 The question everyone is thinking about is asked.

2.                 How do we live until you return?

3.                 That question has been asked by every generation since Christ left this world.

4.                 Yet during this evening, he gave the disciples some advice that helped them and can help us live until he returns.

II.    Don’t be afraid

A.   A word of comfort

1.                 In the midst of all this turmoil, Jesus give them some words of comfort.  Don’t be afraid.

2.                 Our text is a good rendering of the Greek.  “Don’t let your hearts be troubled.”

a)                It’s a message of control.

b)                Don’t let fear control you, take control of your fear.

B.   What a lesson!

1.                 How many Christians have lived in fear most of their lives?

a)                Too many of us live in the same fear the world lives in.

b)                I’m not talking about momentary fright, but day to day fear.

c)                 Always wondering what will come next.

d)                Always afraid to participate in life because something bad might happen.

e)                 We let fear rob us of joy.

2.                 How many of us feel insecure in our salvation and are always in fear of Hell?

a)                I’m not saying there is no way we can fall away from God,

b)                but grace is there so we can have security in knowing God wants us to be with him in Heaven and steps in and helps us when we fail.

c)                 Grace covers the person striving to live as God wants them to.

d)                Rather than celebrating our salvation, we wonder if we can get that last minute prayer out before we die or we’ll end up in Hell.

e)                 God isn’t interesting in throwing lightning bolts at you, he’s interesting in throwing lifelines to you.

f)                  Don’t let fear control your life.

C.   Fear has always been connected with sin

1.                 Did you know that fear is never mentioned in the Bible until after the first sin?

a)                There was no fear of the animals.

b)                There was no fear of God.

c)                 There was no fear of life.

d)                Then man sins and see what happens.  

e)                 READ Gen 3:8-10

2.                 Think about your reactions to sin

a)                You look over your shoulder before going into a topless bar.

b)                You scan the block for familiar cars before going into a “friends” house.

c)                 you get nervous every time people talk about integrity and hypocrisy because it hits too close to home.

d)                You make sure it’s “safe” before you look at the adult section of the video store.

3.                 When you fall that fear turns to guilt and breeds even more fear.

a)                First it’s fear of being seen in our sin.

b)                Then guilt weighs on us and we question whether God can ever forgive us.

c)                 After that, fear sets back in.  This time it’s the fear of what will happen to us.

d)                It paralyzes us and convinces us that we cannot be forgiven.

e)                 So we learn to live with fear and let it take control of our lives.

D.   Conquering fear is a matter of choice

1.                 We need to learn to conquer fear.

a)                What I mean by this is to learn what to fear.

b)                We need to fear God, we need to fear what Satan can do with us if we give in to sin.

c)                 READ Lk 12:4-5

2.                  We need to let the presence of God in our lives banish fear.

a)                take the famous words of David in Psa 23:4 - Though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil.  For YOU are with me.

b)                Isa 12:2 - Surely God is my salvation; I will trust and not be afraid.

c)                 Growing up, I had a healthy fear of the darkness.  My imagination could easily fill any darkness with all sorts of evil things plotting my demise.  So, of course it never failed that the last light in the basement of the church was left on and I had to go across the dark yard, the dark parking lot of the church, into the dark foyer of the church and down the dark stairs to walk through that dark hallway to turn off that classroom light.   Now, I could have turned on some lights, but then I would have had to confess to being … nervous… in the dark and as a teenage boy, that just wasn’t going to happen.  However, I do believe that I set speed records going over to turn off the lights.  What amazed me was that when that light was still on but dad was nearby, I wasn’t near as afraid as when I was by myself.  There was something to knowing my father was nearby to help me overcome my fear.

d)                I think that is what David was talking about.

e)                 I think that was the message that Christ wanted to get to his disciples.

2.                 He will be nearby, don’t let fear overcome you.