Be Glad God Knows Your Future and You Don’t

1 Sam 18:5-9

 

 

 

Raise your hand if you would like to know the future?  Keep your hands up.  How many would like to know the future if it included you losing your job next week and not finding work for 6 months?  Your children die in a car wreck in one year?

 

All of a sudden, knowing the future doesn’t sound so appealing?  Yes, you might make the most of the time between the tragedies, but how would it change who we are to know those tragedies are coming throughout our lives?  Could we live our lives fulfilled knowing what is to come?  Personally, I’m glad I don’t know everything about my future.

 

God never changes.  He knows our future and knows how to help us through it.  We don’t have to worry about all those things because we don’t know they are coming.  We live our lives in the blessing of knowing just about today.

 

As we will see in David’s life, God gives us what we need to make it through the difficult times to come.  We have his help before we are even aware we need it.

 

PRAYER

 

I.       David’s Story

A.   The past

1.                 David goes to meet up with his brothers in the Army.  They are camped on one side of a long valley area and on the other hillside are the Philistines.

2.                 Day after day the giant Goliath comes and taunts the Israelite army.  Day after day, Saul and his army quails in fear and no one stand up to him.

3.                 David, the boy with a slingshot does what no other man with his weapons of war was willing to do.

4.                 He took Goliath’s challenge and won!

B.   The Present

1.                 Now David is a hero.  No longer the shepherd boy nobody noticed.

2.                 Now David is the man everyone praises.  He’s the talk of the town, a celebrity.

3.                 Many young people fold under instant celebrity.  All you have to do is pick up any tabloid and you see young stars and starlets crumbling under the pressures of celebrity.

4.                 Yet, David doesn’t.  He has a sense of who he is and who he belongs to that carries him through those heady days, and the dismal days to come.

5.                 What would David had done if he knew what would follow his great victory over Goliath?

6.                 Would he have acted differently if he knew about the months and years of volatility, running in fear, being cut off from his people that would soon come?

C.   God’s Care

1.                 David was able to live one day at a time because he didn’t have to deal with the knowledge of what was coming.

2.                 Someone once said that loneliness is the most desperate of all English words

3.                 Have you ever been there?  I have.  When I graduated from college I moved back to Alaska.  My family and I almost crossed each other on the Alaskan Highway as they moved to Indiana.  That first Christmas I was living alone and was just beginning to know the people of the congregation.  On Christmas eve and family invited me over for supper and I appreciated that, but I knew I was a guest in their family celebration.  On the way home, a drunk driver ran me off the road and I was buried in 3 feet of snow of some guy’s lawn.   After a lot of work he as able to get me to his driveway and I got home.  The next morning was Christmas and I got up to an empty apartment and empty heart.  The frustration of the night before sank into me as I experienced a Christmas with no friends and no family.   It was a miserable day.

4.                 Imagine that type of feeling intensified by the things that David was going through.  Loneliness.

5.                 God have him the way to handle the dark times to come because he knew what David would need the most.

6.                 From the moment David killed Goliath, he life changes forever.

7.                 Never would he go back to the innocent life of the youngest son of Jesse tending his father’s flocks.

8.                 He would need help in the days to come.  God provides that help in a young man named Jonathan.

a)                These 2 young men become instant best friends.

b)                Jonathan was Saul’s son.

c)                 At first, everything was great and they enjoyed their friendship to the fullest, but as Saul began to hate David more and more, their friendship was put to the test.

d)                As David began to have to constantly watch his back, he found Jonathan already there. READ 1 Sam 23:16-17

e)                 Throughout the next few years Jonathan was a rock of friendship that David needed so badly.

II.    Our Lives today

A.   Not knowing the future lets us live one day at a time

1.                 READ Matt 6:34

2.                 David had no idea what each next day would bring.  All he knew was that God was there to be with him.

3.                 We would be crushed by our futures if we really knew what was coming up.

4.                 It gets hard enough dealing with one day at a time, but that really is a blessing.

5.                 All I have to deal with is today, God’s dealing with tomorrow.

6.                 He knows what I will need.  He knows what will get me through. 

7.                 He knows and will provide, so I don’t have to worry.  I just have to trust.  READ Matt 6:31-33

B.   Having a friend helps us handle whatever comes our way

1.                 I met Bryan and Rick in college 20 years ago.  We became the best of friends and have stayed that way ever since.  When our children were known, they got the call right after our parents.  When I have had difficult times, they are the ones quickly go to for advice.

2.                 When Mom died, they were among the first I called.  At her funeral Rick drove 3 hours to be with me for the day.

3.                 Having friends like that offers a strength that is unbelievable.

4.                 Job realized that with his three friends who came and sat with him for 7 days and never said a word, but shared his grief and pain as only friends can.

5.                 So many of our members have shared stories about how this or that friend from church was there when they need someone the most.

6.                 God gives us those friends for a reason.  Use them.

C.   A positive attitude and wisdom are the best defense against an enemy.

1.                 In war morale is almost as important as weaponry.

2.                 In the famous battle of Thermopylae, 300 Spartan held off thousands.  They believed in their cause, their leader and themselves.

3.                  Instead of sinking to the level of your enemy and fighting fire with fire, let God do the battling for you.

4.                 Take strength in knowing that in the right time and right way God will deal with your opposition.

5.                 Armed with that attitude and wisdom, you would be amazed at how well you can navigate life in a much more happy way.

D.   Concl

1.                 We don’t know the future.  As we saw this morning that’s a blessing from God in many way.

2.                 What we have to do is trust him with the future and live for him in the present.

3.                 Will you commit to living for him today?