P a u l’ s   C h a p e l

Winamac, Indiana

Rev. Ronald C. Purkey, Pastor

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The following Bible study outline was prepared by Rev. Ronald C. Purkey for

the Adult Bible Class at Paul’s Chapel where Rev. Purkey is the teacher.

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GOD’S INCOMPARABLE LOVE

 

SCRIPTURE: 1 John 4:7-21

 

KEY VERSE: “In this was manifested the love of God toward us, because that God sent his only begotten Son into the world, that we might live through him.” 1 John 4:9

 

INTRODUCTION: In chapter 4 John again returns to the subject of love and makes one of the greatest statements about God in Scripture: “God is love” (1 John 4:16b). This single statement helps explain many questions, such as “Why did God create us to have free will, knowing we would sin?” The answer is, because true love is a free response. You cannot make someone love you -- it is that person’s choice. We must choose to love God as He chose to love us.

 

The question, “Why did God send Jesus Christ?” also stems from His love. If He cared only about “law and order,” He could have left us to sin (break the law) and suffer the consequences of our actions, with no hope of redemption. But God loves us so much that He sent His only Son to die for the world and give us all a remedy for our sinfulness.

 

I. GOD’S LOVE DEMONSTRATED. (1 John 4:7-12)

 

A. The Exhortation. (4:7)

 

In verse 7, John returns to the key theme of the letter: the love of believers for one another. The apostle begins this section by arguing that since God is the origin of love, it is only natural that those who belong to Him should love each other.

 

B. The Explanation . (4:8)

 

Those who do not love prove that they do not really know God. For not only is God the source of all true love, He is love by His very nature. How can one claim to have a close relationship with the God of love and yet reflect none of that love towards others? John says it is impossible.

 

C. The Expression. (4:9-10)

 

1. The incident. (4:9)

 

God demonstrated His sacrificial love through an historical event: Jesus’ death on the cross for our sins. God sent His one and only Son to die a horrible death upon the cross so that we might have eternal life.

 

2. The grace. (4:10)

 

Verse 10 explains that God did not send His Son to be a sacrifice for our sins because we were lovable, but because His love required that He rescue us (see Romans 5:8). His love for us was totally unconditional, unrelated to anything we have done or could ever do.

 

D. The Example. (4:11)

 

With God’s action providing the defining standard for love, the responsibility of those who benefit from that love is clear. How can those exposed to such love not respond in like fashion to others?

 

E.  The Evidences. (4:12)

 

First John 4:12 resembles John 1:18 and should not be taken to mean that Jesus was not God. The sense is that no human has seen God in all His glory. Moses could only look on God’s backside and was not allowed to see God’s face (Exodus 33:18-23).

 

Agape Love

 

John’s favorite word for love, “agape” and its various noun and verb variations, finds it meaning in God’s Word. Outside of Scripture, the noun form is only found once in ancient Greek writings, and while the verb form is used more frequently, it has no special significance in ancient literature.

 

The agape love of 1 John is exemplified in God’s sending of His Son to die on our behalf This love does not result from seeing something valuable in the object of love nor is it a feeling. But it is a love of intelligence that acts with purpose. This love is self-sacrificing and willingly seeks another’s positive good, even at personal cost. As God loves, so are we to love in this world. – David C. Cook Publishers, Bible-in-Life

 

QUESTION: What are some of the reasons John gives in the passage for us to love one another?

 

The first reason that John gives for us to love one another is that it is God’s nature to love. It is only natural that those who know Him and are born into His family would love as well. Another reason is that God loved us first. How can we share the benefits of all His love and not extend them to others around us?

 

QUESTION: In addition to positive answers to prayer, what other benefit does John say is derived from obedience to God’s commands?

 

God’s sending of His one and only Son to die a cruel death upon the cross on our behalf is the supreme act of love in all of history. John says that such love should compel us to love others as well. Since we have benefited so much from his example of love, we have an obligation to love others as well.

 

QUESTION: What was unique about God’s expression of love for us?

 

God initiated the love He expressed toward us. We did not love Him, but He loved us. While we were still rebellious and separated from Him by sin, He sent Christ to die for us (see Romans 5:6-8).

 

II. GOD’S LOVE REVEALED. (1 John:4:13-18)

 

A. We Know We Dwell In Him And He In Us. (4:13)

 

God has given us His Spirit to be our guide. Romans 8:16, "The Spirit itself beareth witness with our spirit, that we are the children of God:" Because we cannot see God, He gave us His Spirit to live in us as evidence of His existence. Without the Holy Spirit, we cannot believe or exhibit the love to which John refers. In addition, the Spirit gives us assurance that we indeed belong to God’s family.

 

B. We Know Christ As Our Lord And Savior. (4:14)

 

God has given us His Son to be our Savior. While God’s Spirit opens our eyes to the truth of the Gospel, we also have the witness of the apostles to Jesus’ life, death on the cross, and resurrection. Together, they enable all believers to be confident regarding the historical facts of Jesus’ saving acts. In fact, the acknowledgement that Jesus is the Son of God in the flesh shows that we have the Spirit in us and truly abide in God.

 

C. We Know That Jesus Is The Son Of God. (4:15-16)

 

According to verse 16, the real foundation of confidence before God lies in His love for us. What we see through the Spirit and the apostles as we gaze at the Savior is a God totally motivated by love for us. The headline is not that we believe or love others, but that He cares deeply for us.

 

D. We Know That God Holds The Future. (4:17)

 

God’s love also enables us to face the future with real assurance. Since we know that God dearly loves us, then there is no cause to be fearful before Him, even when we stand in judgment before Him. God’s unfailing love drives out all of our fears. The full flowering of God’s love is incompatible with fear. Perfected love expels anxiety from the heart.

 

E. We Know The Comfort That God Gives. (4:18)

 

There is nothing like fear in the human heart, but the child of God does not need to fear any judgment which is coming. It was all settled when Christ died for you.

 

“He that feareth is not made perfect in love.” If you are fearful, you cannot enjoy your salvation. Joy stems from love, and if you have love for the Lord Jesus, for God, and for your brethren, then fear has been cast out.

 

QUESTION: Who enables us to know that Jesus was truly the Son of God?

 

In chapter 4, John refers to a couple of witnesses to Jesus’ saving work and true identity. First, the Holy Spirit bears witness in us that Jesus was truly God, as He claimed, and that He died on the cross for our sins. Secondly, John also alludes to the testimony of the apostles who lived with Jesus and saw Him after He had risen from the dead.

 

QUESTION: Ultimately, what is the greatest source of our confidence before God?

 

Our ultimate source of our assurance before God is His love for us, as demonstrated through the gift of His Son. As we see a God totally motivated by His love for us and realize how much he really cares for us, our confidence grows and we do not fear to be in His presence. Such love can even make us unafraid to stand before Him in judgment.

 

III. GOD’S LOVE IN ACTION. (1 John 4:19-21)

 

A. We Love Because We Were Loved First By Him. (4:19)

 

In contrast to those who fear (vs. 18), in verse 19 John simply asserts, “We love.” The apostle assumes the best for his readers seeing them as ones who possessed genuine love for one another. John’s basis for such love is that God first loved us, as evidenced in the gift of His Son.

 

B. We Must Walk In Accordance With Our Talk. (4:20)

 

Verse 20 is most likely a reference to the false teachers who proudly proclaimed their love for God, but did not show love to others, especially to those in the church.

 

C. We Have Been Commanded By Our Lord To Love One Another. (4:21)

 

John again alludes to the unseen presence of God. If you cannot love God’s children who display His loving qualities, then how can you claim to love the real thing? If someone rejects God’s image in others and still claims to love God, that person is a liar. The essence of the Christian life is to love one another.

 

“They Do That Because They Are Christians”

 

In The Epistles of John Dr. H.A. Ironside records this incident concerning Chiang Kai-shek at the time he was ruling mainland China:

 

We all noticed a short time ago the account of the professed conversion of the President of China. We hope there has been a real work in his soul, but time will tell. I was reading how he came to his Christian wife who was saved long before he made a profession, and said, “I can’t understand these Christians; why, they have been treated most abominably here, they have been robbed, beaten, many of them killed, they have been persecuted fearfully, and yet I never find one of them retaliating, and any time they can do anything for China, for our people, they are ready to do it; I do not understand them.” “Well,” said his wife, “that, you see, is the very essence of Christianity. They do that because they are Christians.” – J. Vernon McGee, Thru the Bible

 

QUESTION: Why does John say it is impossible to really love God if one cannot love His followers?

 

John says that one who claims to love God, yet cannot love His followers, is a liar. If one cannot love what he sees of God in His children, then how can he claim to love God? Hatred for followers of Christ indicates that one does not know or love God.

 

CONCLUSION: When we experience God’s love – the forgiveness of our sin and a restored relationship with Him through Christ – we inherit the privilege and responsibility of loving others with that same kind of love. John explained that key principle in his first letter.

 

Believers will have an eternity to revel in the glory of God’s gift of love through Christ. But we can begin now to praise and thank the Lord for His goodness and love by expressions of gratefulness, including acts of love toward others.

 

THOUGHT TO REMEMBER: “Love is the believer’s identification mark.”

 

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